Leadership is more than a position. You must influence, motivate, engage and share priorities with your staff. But our leaders seem to have trouble standing up and sharing, even when you created a platform for them.

Find people who are good human beings in addition to being good at sales. Find people

who will care about your mission and be thrilled with the vital role they’ll play in making it a reality.

It might not be easy. Especially if there’s a ton of competition for talent. There are situations and industries where building a whole new sales culture and organization just isn’t feasible. In that case, you just need one. Find a sales leader who understands and values customer relationships—someone who won’t stand for egoism or cutthroat competition and who won’t hire assholes or mercenaries. That leader will shape the culture of their organization to be more relationship-oriented, until the world catches up to what you’re doing and you can implement vested commissions.

These people exist. They’re tired of transactional cultures, too. They want to do right by their customers. They want to feel like part of a real team. Hire them.

Health care and education both revolve around non-sales selling: the ability to influence, to persuade, and to change behavior while striking a balance between what others want and what you can provide them.

People often find potential more interesting than accomplishment because it’s more uncertain, the researchers argue. That uncertainty can lead people to think more deeply about the person they’re evaluating—and the more intensive processing that requires can lead to generating more and better reasons why the person is a good choice. So next time you’re selling yourself, don’t fixate only on what you achieved yesterday. Also emphasize the promise of what you could accomplish tomorrow.

Over the years, I have frequently counseled people who wanted better jobs to show more initiative—to take interest and aptitude tests, to study the industry, even the specific problems the organizations they are interested in are facing, and then to develop an effective presentation showing how their abilities can help solve the organization’s problem. It’s called “solution selling,” and is a key paradigm in business success. The response is usually agreement—most people can see how powerfully such an approach would affect their opportunities for employment or advancement. But many of them fail to take the necessary steps, the initiative, to make it happen.