The 20 percent number was a threshold, which is to say that a little love goes an awfully long way: when you can deliberately weave your red threads throughout the fabric of your work youâll feel stronger, perform better, and bounce back faster.
These red threads are your strengths. Typically we think of our strengths as what weâre good at and our weaknesses as what weâre bad at, and that our team leaders, or our colleagues, are therefore the best judges of both. But as we saw in chapter 4, this is not the best definition of either strengths or weaknesses. A strength is any activity that strengthens you (for Miles the anesthetist, keeping a patient hovering between life and death), and a weakness is any activity that weakens you, even if youâre good at it (for Miles, helping patients recover). âPerformanceâ is what you have done well or poorly, and your team leader can be the judge of that. Team leaders and colleagues, however, canât judge what strengthens or weakens you.