There is a world of difference between the personality traits and behaviors it takes to be chosen as a leader and the traits and skills you need to be able to lead effectively.
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I argued that the underrepresentation of women in leadership was not due to their lack of ability or motivation, but to our inability to detect incompetence in men. When men are considered for leadership positions, the same traits that predict their downfall are commonly mistakenāeven celebratedāas a sign of leadership potential or talent.
As this book will show, traits like overconfidence and self-absorption should be seen as red flags. But instead, they prompt us to say, āAh, thereās a charismatic fellow! Heās probably leadership material.ā The result in both business and politics is a surplus of incompetent men in charge, and this surplus reduces opportunities for competent peopleāwomen and menāwhile keeping the standards of leadership depressingly low.
...we choose leaders by how confident they appear rather than by how confident or competent they are, we not only end up choosing more men to lead us but ultimately choose more-incompetent men.
Finally, good leadership requires psychological capital, that is, how individuals will lead and whether they will make use of their capabilities.
Summing up, if someone has the right intellectual capital, social capital, and psychological capital, they will have more potential to be a good leader. But itās not guaranteed.