âEvery cent Iâd earned so far had been put away in a bank account I opened when I first arrived in Pretoria. I remember my parents asking me if I needed any money right before I left. I knew my familyâs situationâthey had none to spare. Whatever money they gave me would mean they would go without a basic necessity. I thanked my parents and told them I would be sorted out as soon as I got to school. I have never wanted to be a burden on others; I have only wanted to make my own way in the world.