Hereâs another key element when youâre wayfinding in life: follow the joy; follow what engages and excites you, what brings you alive. Most people are taught that work is always hard and that we have to suffer through it. Well, there are parts of any job or any career that are hard and annoyingâbut if most of what you do at work is not bringing you alive, then itâs killing you. Itâs your career, after all, and you are going to be spending a lot of time doing itâ we calculate it at 90,000 to 125,000 hours during the course of your lifetime. If itâs not fun, a lot of your life is going to suck.
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But thereâs also a hopeful story to tell. Companies can sustain greatness for decades, even if only a few do so. What this means is that you never get to the âendâ of The Map. Youâre never done with the journey. Youâre never done with the need for disciplined people who engage in disciplined thought and take disciplined action. Youâre never done renewing the company so that it might be built to last. Youâre never done preparing for bad luck and capitalizing on good luck, getting a higher return on luck than others. Greatness is an inherently dynamic process, not an end point.
The Map doesnât guarantee a great outcome. But those who adhere to its principlesâand who do so with joyful intensityâhave much better odds of building a great company that can endure than those who donât. Along the way, perhaps as more of a by-product than a goal, they just might find the daily happiness that comes from doing meaningful work with people they truly like and deeply respect. And itâs hard to have a better life than that.
Twice a year, spend a week in love with your work. Select a regular week at work and take a pad around with you for the entire week. Down the middle of this pad draw a vertical line to make two columns, and write âLoved Itâ at the top of one column and âLoathed Itâ at the top of the other. During the week, any time you find yourself feeling one of the signs of loveâbefore you do something, you actively look forward to it; while youâre doing it, time speeds up and you find yourself in flow; after youâve done it, thereâs part of you looking forward to when you can do it againâscribble down exactly what that something was in the âLoved Itâ column.
And any time you find yourself feeling the inverseâbefore you do something, you procrastinate, perhaps handing it off to the new person because it will be âdevelopmentalâ; while you do it, time drags on and ten minutes feels like a hard-fought hour; and when youâre done with it, you hope you never have to do it againâscribble down exactly what that something was in the âLoathed Itâ column.
Use your emotional reaction to the raw material of your life to pinpoint which activities have these red-thread qualities.
Once you identify these red threads, your challenge will be to weave them into the fabric of your life, both at home and at work. Weâll get into how to do that later in the book, but for now please know that you do not need an entire quilt made up of only red threads. You donât need to âdo only what you love.â
Instead, you need only to find specific lovesâred threadsâwithin what you do. Recent research by the Mayo Clinic into the well-being of doctors and nurses reveals that 20 percent is the threshold level: spend at least 20 percent of your time at work doing specific activities you love and you are far less likely to experience burnout. Research by colleagues at the ADP Research Institute reinforces this finding. According to their recent global study of twenty-five thousand workers, if you have a chance to do something you love each and every day (even if you arenât good at it yet), you are 3.6 times more likely to be highly resilient.
So, yes, love matters, but you donât need to love all you do. You just need to find the love in what you do. And as the Mayo Clinic research reveals, even a little love goes a long, long way
Awareness is key to life design, and this is true especially when you are designing your career. If you are aware of the process involved in hiring, in writing job descriptions, in reading rĂ©sumĂ©s, in interviewing (from the employerâs perspective), your success rate in getting a job offer goes way up. Empathy is a crucial element in design thinking, and having empathyâand understandingâfor the poor hiring manager buried under a sea of rĂ©sumĂ©s will help you know how to design a more effective job hunt. Effectiveness in getting hired involves a simple yet important design reframe.
The point here is not about superhuman endurance, endless self-inflicted suffering, awe-inspiring work ethic, or even self-discipline. Iâve come to see that for individual lives it is more about feeling intrinsically compelled than about being fanatically disciplined. I used to think of myself as a disciplined person, but the more I studied these lives, the more I came to see that I never really needed discipline to keep going. If you so love what youâre doing, and you feel so well encoded for it that you simply cannot stop yourself from doing it, then how is that discipline? I love the time of bliss in the hours of transition from night to dawn, and there is nothing in the world I would rather be doing than creative work as the light changes. I still hit nearly every single day excited by the work at hand, checking my watch in the middle of the night hoping that it is far enough into the morning to justify getting up, thinking to myself, âPlease, oh please, let it be at least 4 a.m., so I can get going!â Thatâs not discipline; thatâs love.