Learning in community helps us see how our own ideas are shifting over time. Hopefully we develop and change with time, applying life experience to our way of seeing the world. It seems a sign of immaturity to hold fast to one position regardless of new information.
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For these reasons changing values has particularly great significance from a longterm perspective. Looking to the past, we see that such changes have had an enormous impact on the lives of billions of people. Looking to the future, if we can improve the values that guide the behaviour of generations to come, we can be pretty confident that they will take better actions, even if theyâre living in a world very different from our own, the nature of which we cannot predict.
In movement work, I have been facilitating groups to shift from a culture of strategic planning to one of strategic intentionsâwhat are our intentions, informed by our vision?
What do we need to be and do to bring our vision to pass? How do we bring those intentions to life throughout every change, in every aspect of our work?
This often results in groups centering work that doesnât depend on factors outside of their control (such as funders, or elections, which come and go and should be well used but not directive or debilitating). The clearer you are as a group about where youâre going, the more you can relax into collaborative innovation around how to get there. You can relax into
decentralization, and you want to.
If the vision is only clear to one person, that person ends up trying to drive everyone towards their vision, or at minimum control how everyone gets to the vision. That makes sense,
and itâs so exhausting. Decentralized work requires more trust building on the front end, but ultimately it is easier, more fluid.
Tools for Increasing Interdependence and Decentralization
Study Groups/Learning Community
This one seems so simple and old school, but having community to learn with is actually really crucial for human development. It means we learn to see ideas, not just through our own singular and limited perspectives, but to see how different experiences create different ways of thinking about things, of comprehending and applying ideas.
Loretta Ross teaches us that, âWhen people think the same idea and move in the same direction, thatâs a cult. When people think many different ideas and move in one direction,
thatâs a movement.â...
The more people who grow understanding and vision together, the more people who will feel at home in the resulting experiments. Right now we are living inside the results of other peoplesâ imaginationsâpeople who couldnât imagine Black people being free, fat girls being sexy, disabled people being leaders. People who could only imagine their own power and dominance. When more people imagine together, and then step from imagining into thinking through the structures and protocols of a society together, then more needs are attended to. Responding to common text is a great way to do this. And it doesnât have to be just a reading groupâit can be a group that watches films, listens to music, or compares experiments in changing movement practices.
Understanding that you can be wrong, have been wrong, helps to increase the compassion needed to work through the emotional and material impacts of being wronged by another. We often think that we must hold our position, regardless of what we learn or feel. But in fact, the opposite is true. We must learn to develop positions together, adapting to the changing conditions around usâsometimes this means we must relinquish our positions, to voice our feelings and thoughts, and hear and be influenced by, other peopleâs opinions and information. Dialectical humanism suggests that mature humans actually need to be able to adjust beliefs and plans in the realm of changing conditions.
The problem is that there might be better ideas out there, just beyond the edge of our vision. But we accept early closure because letting go of a judgment is painful and disconcerting. To search for a new insight, one would have to put aside the comfort of being oriented and once again cast around in choppy waters for a new source of stability. There is the fear of coming up empty-handed. Plus, it is unnatural, even painful, to question our own ideas.