The Curse of Knowledge is a worthy adversary, because in some sense itâs inevitable. Getting a message across has two stages: the Answer stage and the Telling Others stage. In the Answer stage, you use your expertise to arrive at the idea that you want to share. Doctors study for a decade to be capable of giving the Answer. Business managers may deliberate for months to arrive at the Answer.
Hereâs the rub: The same factors that worked to your advantage in the Answer stage will backfire on you during the Telling Others stage. To get the Answer, you need expertise, but you canât dissociate expertise from the Curse of Knowledge. You know things that others donât know, and you canât remember what it was like not to know those things. So when you get around to sharing the Answer, youâll tend to communicate as if your audience were you.