Ten years before, in 2007, Leslie Kilgore had coined a phrase, which is now used across Netflix to describe exactly what Ted was doing as he walked out through the lobby of the hotel: âLead with context, not control.â At just about any other company, with this much money on the table, the senior guy would get involved and control the negotiations. But thatâs not what leadership looks like at Netflix. As Adam explained: âTed wasnât about to make that decision for me, but he set broad context to help align my thinking with the companyâs strategy. That context he set laid the foundation for my decision.