Iâm struck by how, except when youâre young, you really need to prioritize in life, figuring out in what order you should divide up your time and energy. If you donât get that sort of system set by a certain age, youâll lack focus and your life will be out of balance. I placed the highest priority on the sort of life that lets me focus on writing, not associating with all the people around me. I felt that the indispensable relationship I should build in my life was not with a specific person, but with an unspecified number of readers. As long as I got my day-to-day life set so that each work was an improvement over the last, then many of my readers would welcome whatever life I chose for myself. Shouldnât this be my duty as a novelist, and my top priority? My opinion hasnât changed over the years. I canât see my readersâ faces, so in a sense itâs a conceptual type of human relationship, but Iâve consistently considered this invisible, conceptual relationship to be the most important thing in my life.