Through a series of seeming coincidences, Bilich was presented with exactly that type of job with F.A. Hoyt. And once he got to Hoyt, a leaser of garbage collection equipment, he was able to triple pretax earning in four years - by applying what he had learned during his monastic period about being himself about being himself, about having compassion for himself and others.
I had come to love myself, not in a selfish way, but just to recognize who I am, that I am a person of value, and I have that value to give to my fellow-man. And in giving to that fellow-man I will get something in return for it, but the real joy is giving, not receiving. Once I discovered that, and learned that I could love myself, then I realized that I could truly love others because I knew how it felt.