When the sailing gets rocky, the manager is often the first person others turn to, so itâs common to feel an intense pressure to know what to do or say. When you donât, you naturally think: Am I cut out for this job?
The second reason is that you are constantly put in the position of doing things you havenât done before. For example, say you have to fire someone. How do you prepare yourself for such a task? Itâs not like improving your skills in drawing or writing, where you can invest time on nights and weekends to sketch or compose short stories. You canât just snap your fingers and say, âIâm going to practice firing a lot of people this month.â You must actually go through the real thing in order to gain the experience you need.
Management isnât an innate skill. There is no such thing as an âall-around great managerâ who can transition effortlessly between different leadership roles. We must look at the specific context.