Roger Fischer⊠In 1981 he coauthored Getting to Yes, the most influential book ever written about negotiation. Fisherâs signal contribution was the concept of âprincipled negotiation,â which proposed that the aim of negotiating shouldnât be to make the other side lose but, where possible, to help it win.
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Roger Fisher and William Ury, two Harvard law professors, have done some outstanding work in what they call the âprincipledâ approach versus the âpositionalâ approach to bargaining in their tremendously useful and insightful book, Getting to Yes. Although the words Win/Win are not used, the spirit and underlying philosophy of the book are in harmony with the Win/Win approach. They suggest that the essence of principled negotiation is to separate the person from the problem, to focus on interests and not on positions, to invent options for mutual gain, and to insist on objective criteriaâsome external standard or principle that both parties can buy into.