I read the final version of the manuscript some weeks ago and have been thrashing about for a handle,â she wrote. âUsually getting a title isnât so important at this stage, but because the book needs a title that will really pull it together in the readerâs mind before he opens it I am desperate. . . . I think we need a sentence-title like âBeen down so long looks like up to me.ââ After fits and starts with a range of options (including Pilgrims, I Have My Own Song to Sing, and Like a Ship Out to Sea), they settled on the title they thought best from the beginningâ Look What They Done to My Song.