4.6. Learn from Your Decisions
Many people assume that good decisions get good outcomes and bad ones donât. But thatâs not true. The quality of a single decision isnât determined by the quality of the outcome. Hereâs a thought experiment that will help illuminate this concept.
Imagine you engage in a very thoughtful and intentional decision-making process concerning your career.
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Clear Thinking- Shane Parrish
Preface
That night I started asking myself questions that Iâd continue exploring for the next decade. How can we get better at reasoning? Why do people make bad decisions? Why do some people consistently get better results than others who have the same information? How can I be right more often, and decrease the probability of a bad outcome when lives are on the line?
Even when we get the big decisions directionally right, weâre not guaranteed to get the results we want.
We donât think of ordinary moments as decisions. No one taps us on the shoulder as we react to a comment by a coworker to tell us that weâre about to pour gasoline or water onto this flame.
Part 4: Clear Thinking in Action
Often what seems like poor judgement in hindsight doesnât even register as a decision in the moment. When the defaults conspire, we react without thinking. And that reaction doesnât even count as a decision. Once we register the opportunity to make a conscious choice, the question becomes: How can we make the best decision possible?
The decision itself should represent the outcome of the decision-making process. That process is about weighing your options with the aim of selecting the best one, and itâs composed of four stages: defining the problem, exploring possible solutions, evaluating the options, and finally making the judgment and executing the best option. We will discuss each of these components in detail throughout this chapter.
Making a good decision is about the process, not the outcome. One bad outcome doesnât make you a poor decision maker any more than one good outcome makes you a genius.
Many of us have a hard time learning from our decisions. One reason is that our thinking and decision-making process is often invisible to us. We inadvertently conceal from ourselves the steps we took to reach our final decision. Once that decision gets made, we donât stop to reflect, but just move forward. And when we look back at our decision later, our ego manipulates our memories. We confuse what we know now with what we knew at the time we made the decision. And we see the outcomes and read them back into our intentions: âOh, I meant to do that.â
If you donât check your thinking at the time you made the decisionâ what you knew, what you thought was important, and how you reasoned about itâ youâll never know whether you made a good decision or just got lucky. If you want to learn from decisions, you need to make the invisible thought process as visible and open to scrutiny as possible. The following safeguard can help:
Safeguard: Keep a record of your thoughts at the time you make the decision.